I had artwork in a show and kept asking my sisters to attend the opening, because I figured I had to bug them to get them to come. When I was leaving the house I asked them "aren't you coming?" They said no, that they had not been invited. I inadvertently hurt their feelings because I assumed they would always be there.
Eileen was a very thrifty gal. She bought CareFree sugarless gum and would willingly share it. A half piece at a time. Seriously! Since gum loses its flavor relatively quickly, she thought it was wasteful to take an entire piece, no matter how long you would chew it. So she would tear the piece in half and hand it out as though it were a special treat. Even Jenifer remembers this about her! When her grandson Morgan was preschool age, he pronounced the word "Num." Grandma Eileen said, "Gum. G - g - g - g - gum. With a hard G. You say it." And Morgan said, "G - g - g - g - num!" It was hilarious! He wasn't doing it to be a stinker; he just had trouble with the word. But she kept trying! When Jeanne was five-ish years old, Eileen said "No" at the grocery store to buying her a pack of gum for herself. Jeanne took one and put all five sticks in her mouth while on the car ride home. Since she was dumb, the wrappers were all there in the bac...
I don't remember this! I wish I'd gone to your cross country meets . . . I would have loved cheering you on. I enjoy going to see your artwork on display when I get the opportunity. Life is meant to be lived! No regrets, but lots of opportunities to learn and grow. Love you!
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